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spike wrote:
So there are some sensible guidelines. What sort of parameters need to be met to justify making amends with old sexual partners? Like, a drunken one night stand shouldn’t be a enough of a qualifier.
Entirely up to the person working through their program, and their sponsor. Did they commit harm towards another person, and/or otherwise hold some resentment towards them? You work through each resentment individually, identify what aspects of your ego instinct was damaged (instinct for esteem, for money, for sexual desire, etc), and then identify what you may have done wrong throughout the course of the interaction. From there you can work with your sponsor to figure out whether to make a direct amends to the person, or a living amends.
Joined: Tue September 24, 2013 5:56 pm Posts: 47292 Location: In the oatmeal aisle wearing a Shellac shirt
spike wrote:
Yeah I’m trying to wrap my head around needing to make amends to 200 people like trag.
The majority were either public figures, or people who I was holding on to resentments from since I was like five years old. The number of resentments I'd catalogued since becoming an adult was much smaller.
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tragabigzanda wrote:
spike wrote:
Yeah I’m trying to wrap my head around needing to make amends to 200 people like trag.
The majority were either public figures, or people who I was holding on to resentments from since I was like five years old. The number of resentments I'd catalogued since becoming an adult was much smaller.
which RMers?
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Joined: Tue September 24, 2013 5:56 pm Posts: 47292 Location: In the oatmeal aisle wearing a Shellac shirt
tree_ wrote:
tragabigzanda wrote:
spike wrote:
Yeah I’m trying to wrap my head around needing to make amends to 200 people like trag.
The majority were either public figures, or people who I was holding on to resentments from since I was like five years old. The number of resentments I'd catalogued since becoming an adult was much smaller.
Yeah I’m trying to wrap my head around needing to make amends to 200 people like trag.
The majority were either public figures, or people who I was holding on to resentments from since I was like five years old. The number of resentments I'd catalogued since becoming an adult was much smaller.
Guys, I am not a moderator! I swear to God! Why does everyone think I'm a moderator?
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Strat wrote:
tragabigzanda wrote:
tree_ wrote:
tragabigzanda wrote:
spike wrote:
Yeah I’m trying to wrap my head around needing to make amends to 200 people like trag.
The majority were either public figures, or people who I was holding on to resentments from since I was like five years old. The number of resentments I'd catalogued since becoming an adult was much smaller.
which RMers?
I just looked it up, honestly zero
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He forgot you were on RM
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Yeah I’m trying to wrap my head around needing to make amends to 200 people like trag.
The majority were either public figures, or people who I was holding on to resentments from since I was like five years old. The number of resentments I'd catalogued since becoming an adult was much smaller.
Joined: Sun September 15, 2013 5:50 am Posts: 22641
tragabigzanda wrote:
96583UP wrote:
Ello Sailor wrote:
This is a catch-all thread for recovery. That includes your butt and all of its troubles, Numbers.
We're here for you.
thank you
my poop this morning was good
i just had taco salad for lunch w lots of black beans and veggies, so I am optimistic about the future as well
thank you, for being there for me through this journey <braces for Trag lecture based on his personal walk with poop>
Step 2 is mostly about taco salad so you’re right on track
this is a step i tend to revisit every Tuesday
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spike wrote:
So there are some sensible guidelines. What sort of parameters need to be met to justify making amends with old sexual partners? Like, a drunken one night stand shouldn’t be a enough of a qualifier.
chix w/ dix r ok?
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Ugh, came across old pics of ex GF and me and got triggered but didn't act on it. Deleted said photos, I thought that I had deleted all of them but it's tough to wipe out a year.
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