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Since this has been going around, it's time to ask the elderly their thoughts....
If you were back in the dating pool or currently are (sorry), does a partner's 'body count' matter to you? Be honest, this is a safe space.
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Since this has been going around, it's time to ask the elderly their thoughts....
If you were back in the dating pool or currently are (sorry), does a partner's 'body count' matter to you? Be honest, this is a safe space.
Not really. I have one too, I suppose.
I'd like to think that would be true for me... but I doubt I would be that secure or be able to get past the idea that all of those people decided she was unworthy of pursuing a commitment with. I fully recognize how regressive that perspective is, grounded in patriarchal insecurity, but like was implied... at 100+ there is something going on there I just couldn't deal with.
_________________ "The fatal flaw of all revolutionaries is that they know how to tear things down but don't have a f**king clue about how to build anything."
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Do not care. Is some chaste virgin going to choose me out of everyone in the world? No, I am not a first choice. I need a libertine to work their way through better options and eventually settle for me.
That's mostly a joke, but it is true that I am shy and if flirty people don't choose me I just stay alone. So flirty, and what can sometimes go with flirty, is a good quality.
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